Reignite the Spark with Skilled Couples Counselling

Restore trust and communication to face challenges together.

  • Strengthened trust through honest communication
  • Restored emotional intimacy and connection
  • Strengthened bond through mutual respect and trust
  • Rebuilt foundations of love, trust, and respect
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Restore trust and communication to face challenges together.

At Respectful Relationship Counselling Christchurch, we provide compassionate, professional counselling tailored to the needs of individuals and couples in Christchurch. 

  • Strengthened trust through honest communication
  • Restored emotional intimacy and connection
  • Strengthened bond through mutual respect and trust
  • Rebuilt foundations of love, trust, and respect
Book a Free Session Now

Are Conflicts Changing Your Relationship into a Battleground?

Watch this 2-minute video to find out!

Relationships can face all kinds of challenges – financial stress, the demands of parenting, or even the aftermath of betrayal. These struggles can leave you feeling disconnected, stuck, or uncertain about the future.


  • Is Money Stress Turning Love into Conflict?
  • Has Parenting Pressure Left Your Relationship on Edge?
  • Can Trust Be Rebuilt After Infidelity?
  • Are explosive arguments turning into a cycle of emotional or physical harm?
  • Has Intimacy Been Replaced by Routine and Silence?

A mix of frustration, loneliness, and anxiety about where things are heading.


Feeling unheard or misunderstood. The sinking feeling of not knowing how to fix things.


You’re not alone – and there’s a way through this.


At Respectful Relationship Counselling, we specialise in helping couples reconnect, rebuild trust, and create a path forward together.


Let us guide you toward a stronger, healthier relationship.

We help couples in Christchurch find their way back to each other.

We get it – feeling like your relationship’s slipping away is tough.

It’s heartbreaking when the connection isn’t what it used to be, and you’re unsure how to make it better.


With years of experience in couples counselling and relationship counselling, we’ve helped countless couples in Christchurch overcome their challenges and find their way back to each other.


We believe every couple deserves the chance to build a happy, fulfilling relationship – and you don’t have to do it alone.

The Path to Emotional Wellness

Compassionate counsellors.

You’ll feel truly heard and supported.

Which Means:  You’ll gain the tools and confidence to rebuild your relationship.

Emotionally focused couples therapy.

Learn practical strategies to resolve conflicts and reconnect.

Which Means: You’ll walk away with real solutions, not just talk.

In-person and online couples options.

Convenient scheduling that fits into your busy lives.

Which Means:  No more excuses – you can get the help you need, wherever you are.

Your Roadmap to Relationship Success

Step 1: Contact Us

Call 0800 003378 to Book Your Session. We’ll have a quick chat to understand your situation and get you booked in.

Step 2: Work Together to Build a Plan

Through guided sessions, we’ll tackle the challenges head-on, giving you tools to communicate better and grow closer.

Step 3: Enjoy a Stronger, Happier Relationship

With our support, you’ll rediscover the joy in your partnership and feel like a team again.

Rebuilding relationships – our clients share their success stories.

“My husband and I have engaged in couples counselling in the past and whilst we still have

a lot to grow at this point, I wholeheartedly believe that T and his counselling style and skills

has given us the best chance at reconciling our marriage.

I have so much gratitude to you for

consistently holding space for us to safely communicate and work on our relationship”


Matt & Jess 
New Brighton

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“Couples counselling with T has been instrumental in helping my partner and I grow as a

couple to improve our communication and behaviour to benefit the wellbeing of our family

and ourselves … I believe the world would be a much better place if everyone had access to

this learning”

Tim & Helen

Ilam

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"I’ll admit I was sceptical about counselling, but it’s honestly been life-changing for our marriage.


 It’s been good to be able to talk through issues and dive into personal development on a

week to week basis. To get through little issues before they become big issues”

Jeremy & Sue
Papanui

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Everything you need for a stronger relationship

Experienced Therapists

Receive expert guidance tailored to your needs. You’ll achieve your therapy goals effectively and efficiently.

Online Counselling Options

Access therapy from anywhere. You’ll have the flexibility to attend sessions remotely.


Free - Affordable services.

Access professional help without breaking the bank.

Which Means: Getting support won’t add stress to your relationship.

Personalised Therapy Plans

Therapy sessions designed specifically for you. You’ll get the most effective and relevant support.

Holistic Approach

Comprehensive support addressing all aspects of well-being. You’ll achieve overall emotional and mental health.

Ongoing Support

Continued assistance even after initial goals are met.You’ll have long-term support for sustained well-being.

Confidential & Safe Environment

Discuss issues openly without fear. You’ll feel secure and supported during therapy.

Evidence-Based Techniques

Use of proven therapy methods.You’ll benefit from effective and reliable treatment.

Flexible Scheduling

Access therapy sessions at convenient times.

You’ll be able to fit therapy into your busy life.

To get all this and more…
Book a Free Session Now

Most couples wait too long to get help – don’t let that be you.

40% of couples say communication issues are their biggest challenge.

Studies show 75% of couples who try counselling see improvements in their relationship.

Couples who seek counselling earlier tend to resolve issues faster, avoiding years of strain.

Don’t wait until things feel unfixable. With our support, you can start turning things around today.

From Conflict to Connection -

7 Proven Strategies to Overcome Conflict

Inside, you'll discover actionable tips to transform your relationship. Learn secrets of effective communication, setting boundaries, and reconnecting intimately. 


This FREE guide offers steps to practice patience, embrace positivity, and seek professional help when needed. Unlock strategies to bridge gaps, foster empathy, and turn conflict into a deeper connection. 

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • What is couples counselling and how can it help my relationship?

    Couples counselling is a therapeutic process where both partners work with a counsellor to resolve issues, improve communication, and strengthen their relationship.

  • How long does each counselling session last?

    How long does each counselling session last? Each session typically lasts between 50 to 60 minutes, allowing ample time to address key concerns and work towards resolution.

  • How many counselling sessions will we need?

    The number of sessions varies based on individual needs and the complexity of the issues. Many couples see improvements within 6-12 sessions.

  • Is couples counselling confidential?

    Is couples counselling confidential? Yes, all sessions are confidential. Our counsellors adhere to strict ethical guidelines to ensure your privacy and trust.

  • Do we need to attend sessions together?

    While joint sessions are beneficial, individual sessions can also be helpful. The approach will depend on your unique situation and needs.

  • We are worried counselling will make things worse.

    Counselling is designed to provide a safe space to address issues constructively, aiming to improve your relationship, not exacerbate problems.

  • We don't have time for regular counselling sessions.

     We offer flexible scheduling, including evening and online appointments, to accommodate your busy lifestyle.

  • We can't afford counselling.

      We provide various payment options and some services may be free. Investing in your relationship is invaluable.. ​

  • We're unsure if our problems are severe enough for counselling.

    We're unsure if our problems are severe enough for counselling. Counselling can benefit relationships at any stage. Early intervention can prevent issues from escalating.

  • One partner is reluctant to attend.

    One partner is reluctant to attend. It's common for one partner to be hesitant. Starting with individual sessions can help address concerns and ease into joint counselling.